MLK Day

A lot has changed in 50 years but not enough. I could make comments about our President and his lack of respect for others, or how the media likes to push certain agendas as take hold of social justice issues. But the reality is, this is about me and you, the average person digesting the social temperature of our country. What are WE doing to affect change? We have to do better. 

In this season of motherhood with littles, I often become self-centered. So much of my is poured into my family and these tiny humans who need me that I don’t have much energy left to pour into social justice issues. Yet on the other hand, as a mom of children who are not white, it’s extremely concerning to me. 

I have read many quotes about how inaction, especially by those who are white and privileged (which we are, whether we acknowledge it or not), continues to feed the problem. I certainly don’t want that to be my role, nor the role my children see me live out. So I’ve been feeling challenged about not staying silent, but what action can I take? 

It often feels overwhelming or hopeless, akin to solving world hunger or poverty.  But I am reminded we’re not called to do everything, but we are called to do something. To play our own small part and as a body, make a big difference together. This may look like allowing teachable moments as we go about our lives. Stepping in when I see something. Teaching my children to love all people. Talking with them as they grow about the injustice we see and hear about all too often and how we can be the change and do better. 

It also may look like intentionally seeking out opportunities to expose them to cultures and backgrounds and people we may not encounter naturally in our daily lives. Getting involved in serving and ministries as a family that stretch us outside our comfort zone. Loving those who are overlooked by the world by going out of our way to provide their basic needs or a listening ear or a hug. 

As a mother, wife, and follower of Jesus I am called to stand up, speak out, and do my part. I’m still figuring out what what looks like in this season of life where I barely take a breather for myself, but I must do something. I will not stand by and be a part of the problem. I will be a part of the solution, and in doing so honor Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr and so many who have stood up for justice and equality before me. It’s our time. 

(Megan)